Are the unambitious always married off early?
I am a female in my mid-twenties, living in a orthodox and cultured East Asian society. The norm here is to marry females once their teenage days are over or if they get a job. And males, also have to follow the same route except it can be a few years later, their late twenties or early thirties to be precise. Most people in my life are ambitious, want to get their dream career, fly abroad for further studies or job (if they get the one that sends them), do a number of things to earn income, hobbies for fun and travel as well as eating. Exploring themselves, finding a way to turn their passion into the job they love (add all millennial dreams that boomers look down upon here. ) The work hard to :- Connect with people (Networking), Up skill themselves, Acquire knowledge, Engage in volunteering or anything else that they can get in. (My friend is in this and that...) It's not much of a surprise that we look at marriage as an indirect obstacles to our lifesty...